The Conversation Project for pre work specific situations
I’m Dead, Now What Planner - Important Information about My Belongings, Business Affairs, and Wishes
When Breath Becomes Air, by Paul Kalanithi, a memoir from a neurosurgeon about what makes life worth living.
One Fit Widow, Facebook
Remento - a way of capturing a loved ones memories in their own voice, today

Resource Hub

Estate planning or legal advice
We don’t draft wills or replace attorneys — we make those conversations and processes easier and less expensive.
Hospice or medical care
We don’t provide medical guidance or end-of-life care services.
Chaplain, clergy, or faith-based counseling
Calm Crossing is welcoming to all beliefs and focuses on practical support, not spiritual direction.

(If you’re unsure whether Calm Crossing is the right fit, you’re always welcome to reach out and ask.)

Calm Crossing exists in the space between “we should talk about this someday” and “I wish we had.”

A gentle way to start the conversations most families avoid
We help you talk about what matters before it’s urgent — and without forcing anything before you’re ready.
Pre-planning and post-death guidance
Calm Crossing can be used while you’re healthy, after a loss, or anywhere in between.
Care and clarity, side by side
Emotional support paired with practical, step-by-step organization — so nothing important gets lost.
A steady, human guide
Not a system. Not a lecture. A real person who stays with you through it.

This site lists resources and clarifies what we are and are not.

Anyone looking for clear, straightforward information about available resources.

We update the list regularly to keep everything current and useful for visitors.

Yes, we welcome suggestions to improve our resource list.

No, this site is informational and not for commercial purposes.

We focus on clear, reliable resources that align with our mission and values.