Because love shouldn’t turn into chaos when someone dies.

Support before a loss — and guidance after one.

Hi, I’m Jessica.

I was 36 with three small kids when my husband died without warning.
Four months later, my stepdad.
Four years later, my dad — alone in his apartment.

I cleaned it all up by myself.
In one case, there were clear wishes.
In the others, there were not.

That contrast matters.

I built Calm Crossing so other families wouldn’t have to face that kind of chaos.

Calm Crossing can be used before a loss, after a loss, or anywhere in between.

Because love shouldn’t turn into chaos when someone dies.

Calm Crossing helps families prepare before a loss — and find their footing after one.

Hi, I’m Jessica.

I was 36 with three small kids when my husband died without warning.
Four months later, my stepdad.
Four years later, my dad — alone in his apartment.

In one case, there were clear wishes.
In the others, there were not.

That contrast matters.

I’ve lived what happens when love is there — but clarity isn’t.

So I built the thing I begged the universe for back then:

A gentle, human way to get everything out of your head and into one clear place — while you’re healthy, while there’s still time, or when you’re standing in the aftermath wondering where to start.

No stuffy lawyers (yet).
No overwhelming checklists.

Just calm, step-by-step guidance from someone who’s been exactly where you’re afraid of going.

Calm Crossing can be used before a loss, after a loss, or anywhere in between.

P.S. Talking about death won’t make it happen. Silence almost guarantees chaos will.

Calm Crossing

Support for the conversations you’re avoiding — and the work no one warns you about

Facing Endings Together

What You’ll Walk Away With

Everything that matters — wishes, passwords, and information — in one calm place
Fewer unanswered questions and “I wish I’d asked” moments for your family
The relief of knowing this part is handled

Calm Crossing can be used before a loss, after a loss, or anywhere in between.

One last thing:
Calm Crossing isn’t legal or medical care — it helps you get organized so those conversations are easier.

Facing Endings Together

What You’ll Walk Away With

Everything your family would otherwise have to hunt for — wishes, passwords, accounts, documents, and instructions — gathered in one calm, organized place
A gentle but thorough way to prepare while you’re healthy, so nothing important is left unsaid or undocumented
A clear, steady guide for the first days and months after a death, when decisions and paperwork feel overwhelming
Far fewer “I wish I’d asked” moments — and far more confidence that you did right by the people you love
The relief of closing your laptop and actually enjoying today, knowing this part is handled

Calm Crossing can be used before a loss, after a loss, or anywhere in between.

One last thing:
I’m not an attorney — and I don’t try to be.

I’m the steady, caring guide who helps you get everything organized and clear so that when you do work with an attorney, the legal pieces are faster, simpler, and far less expensive. And there are a few different ways people choose to get there.